My Child Wants to Know About Sex

Many parents are not comfortable talking with their children about sex, but kids need good information – plus their parents’ values – in order to make healthy decisions.

1. Answer questions honestly and accurately, with words your child can understand. Visit the library or ask your doctor for information if you are unsure what to say. Encourage your child to ask questions.
2. Talk with your child about birth control and sexually transmitted diseases, as well as reasons to say no to sex without commitment.
3. Discuss sexual situations you see on television and movies; teens especially tend to romanticize sex and may not understand its dangers.
4. Talk about peer pressure to have sex and help your child develop skills to resist peers who are sexually active.