10 Ways to Build Your Child’s Self-Esteem
Parenting often includes the desire for your child to build self-esteem. Every parent dreams of raising a child who feels confident, resilient, and truly valued. Nurturing self-esteem isn’t about grand gestures—it’s woven into the everyday moments of connection, understanding, and encouragement. Here are ten practical strategies to help children develop a strong sense of self-worth—from heartfelt hugs and specific praise to fostering independence and thoughtful goal-setting
We explore these techniques in detail and offer fresh insights on how you can seamlessly incorporate them into your daily routine—whether it’s turning negative self-talk into positive affirmations, listening with genuine curiosity, or helping your child learn through responsibility. Let’s dive in and discover nurturing, empowering ways to help your child grow into the confident individual they are meant to be.
10 Tips to Build Self-Esteem
- Hug, kiss, and say, “I love you” to your child every day.
- Give your child specific praise often. For example, instead of “good job” or “you’re great,” say “I love it when you pick up toys without me asking.”
- Try to turn around your child’s negative thoughts about him/herself. Teach positive self-talk, such as “I like who I am” and I can do it!”
- Talk with your child every day, and really listen. Show respect for his/her ideas and opinions.
- Avoid put-downs, even as jokes. Kids take them seriously.
- Assign your child chores and let him/her help you with tasks. Acknowledge your child’s hard work.
- Encourage independence and problem-solving. Allow your child to make choices, find solutions, and learn to accept consequences.
- Teach your child to set goals. Pick a specific goal that’s realistic but will take effort. Then track and celebrate progress!
- Don’t compare your children. “Your older brother was able to do this faster,” only discourages a child and causes resentment.
- Encourage success, but assure your child that you love him/her unconditionally.