My Baby Cries All the Time

Having a baby cry for long periods of time can shatter any parent’s nerves. Babies cry when they are hungry, wet, tired or just want company – but sometimes no matter what you try, they won’t stop crying.

  1. Rule out any medical causes with a trip to the doctor or clinic. Your doctor can give you advice about a ‘colicky’ baby, some babies cry a lot more than others, no matter what parents do or don’t do. This stage can go on for several months!
  2. Try a few old favorite techniques, feed the baby slowly, and burp often, offer a pacifier, hold the baby close to you and walk with him; take the baby for a ride in the car or stroller; wrap the baby in a soft blanket and put him in a quiet, dark room for a short while; go into another room and try to relax.
  3. Remind yourself that the baby does not hate you and is not crying to annoy you – babies just cannot reason like that.
  4. Ask for help when you are frustrated – have a friend or family member help you when you need a break.
  5. If you are feeling overwhelmed, it is safer to let the baby cry than to shake or punish the baby. NEVER SHAKE A BABY! Every parent needs a break from a baby once in a while!

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